Most of us would agree that men are visual, but what we often don’t realize is that this is only part of the truth. Yes, men get attracted or distracted by something that easily catches their attention…but for them to be truly devoted in a relationship, they crave something much deeper…energetically and emotionally.
We might think that if we dress up nicer, look prettier, or even act smarter, they will stay with us forever. And so, without noticing, we begin unconsciously competing with other women. Sometimes we even believe that if we contribute more…in any aspect…it will make them appreciate us more. Yet what we don’t see is how all this chasing, proving, performing, and competing slowly pulls our focus away from ourselves.
Growing up, many of us heard other women say that we must be strong and not depend on men, because otherwise, they will never truly value us. While this belief isn’t entirely wrong, it was never the real reason men stayed.
A woman is most magnetic when she focuses on herself…when she grooms herself because it makes her happy, thrives in her career simply because she loves what she does, receives help and support because she accepts her vulnerability and knows her worth. And this is what a man craves.
When we shift our attention from focusing on a man back to ourselves, that’s when we begin to glow….from the inside out.
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