I don’t know when all this started…we strategise, plan, rehearse, guess, and try to control even in relationships…which are supposed to be built on sincerity, trust, love, and honesty.
We keep trying to control outcomes when things are meant to flow naturally. And when we feel it slipping out of our hands, we fear, get jealous, resentful, or even… give up entirely.
I see so many questions….how to stop a man from cheating, how to check his phone, how to confirm if he’s having an affair, why he looks at other women, doesn’t call often, doesn’t show affection, or doesn’t say “I love you” enough. But really, the simplest thing is to honour our feelings and trust that if it’s meant to be, it will be.
When we live in suspicion and jealousy, the truth is… we’re only hurting ourselves. We think proving ourselves right will make us feel in control, like we’ve “won.” But in relationships, that was never the point….and in the end, the one we lose is always ourselves.
Being in a relationship with someone we love is one of the sweetest things we can ever experience. Yes, sometimes it may go downhill, or end unexpectedly for many reasons. We may feel hurt, betrayed, disappointed… but often, it’s just the universe’s way of showing us that we were never meant for each other in the first place.
It takes time to heal, of course. But one thing is for sure….when someone leaves, it’s only because space is being cleared for the right one to arrive.
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