We’ve been taught since young that everything has a deadline, a timeframe to follow. So we try, even rush, to meet whatever timeline is given to us…and unconsciously, we carry the same pattern into relationships. We feel that there’s a need for deadline for when to get married, when to have children… and as time passes, we forget about trusting divine timing.
How long should we date before talking about marriage?
How long is a break considered “normal”?
How long should it take for him to come back after pulling away?
Being human, we naturally want security and certainty. And so we convince ourselves that following these guidelines will guarantee results.
Because of that, we sometimes push ourselves into talks or lengthy conversations with our partner, even when the relationship already feels off… or we walk away just because the “deadline” has passed, even if deep down it still feels right.
Are outcomes more important than a meaningful, soulful relationship with deep connection?
Letting go of the urge to control outcomes allows trust to grow. And when we begin to trust divine timing and honour our true feelings, that’s when the one who’s truly meant for us finds their way to us.
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