Thursday, September 11, 2025

Stop Chasing: How Women Can Stay Grounded and Let Men Lead in Courtship


Image by JillWellington from Pixabay

Most people think that only men fantasise but…women do too, just in a different way. Women are intuitive, and we tune in to our senses and emotions easily. Sometimes, when we meet men who are interested in us, we know…but often, we react before anything certain or obvious is shown by them, especially when we feel the same way. We let our imaginations run wild with what it could be and what they can give us.


Often, we tend to jump in too quickly when they show small gestures, and start chasing them energetically, when the most crucial part is to stay put and wait. This is not passive or self-centred, but giving ourselves the benefit of doubt….because we deserve to be loved the way we want to be, and because this allows men to take charge in the courtship, as they’re wired to do.


When we allow nature to take its course, only then will both feel fulfilled and satisfied. And women will never need to question, “Does he like me?” because his actions will always speak louder than words.







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